You are a one of a kind!
Life has given you the experiences you needed to help others, even if you cannot see that as yet.
You might see yourself as a failure but who are you comparing that to?
Have they done what you have done, learned what you have learned, experienced all the things you have?
Just because you are a similar age/ gender/ color/ similar education whatever …
It is no reason to compare yourself to others!
What you don’t know is how they feel, how they are comparing themselves, how they see themselves!
So be kind to yourself! This might be hard to do in the beginning … but love yourself! Take the time to recognize your achievements, your successes no matter how large or small.
It’s Your Story!
Be gentle with your thoughts!
You are going to get negative conversations in your own head,
but don’t beat yourself up for it
1 IT’S NOT WORTH IT!
2 IT’S NOT GOING TO GET YOU ANYWHERE!
We each have our own amazing talents and specialties, that no-one else can compare to. What we don’t see for ourselves are the situations and experiences that we have endured and grown from. We need to take the time to look at ourselves and our lives to observe how Great we actually are!
You are One Of A Kind!
You are Talented In Our Own Way!
You have Experiences Of Our Own!
You Help Others … In ways you have not yet recognized yet.
I have come to realize that my spin on how I have coped with being a single mum and managed on an extremely tight budget to keep a roof over our heads and food in the kids tummies, will help others that are going through the same thing. I know I have the gift of experience to share and let those people know they can make it through not to give up and share how they did it!
Have a wonderful day and know that you are
YOUR OWN IMPORTANT INDIVIDUAL THAT NEEDS NO COMPARISON!
Decide Act Achieve